I'm just me, and I must say...

PLEASE READ AND GIVE ME FEEDBACK…THANKS.

I had an extremely close friend who I shared everything with, no boundaries to our conversations and they end up leaving for a little bit. I tried my hardest to do stay in touch with them but at the same time I was in some depressed state that I didn’t want to always be the topic of every discussion so I was by myself for a while.

Now keep in mind I’m the type of friend to always be there when you need me. Even if we have’t talked in years I will still have your back til you don’t want me there anymore. I don’t believe you need to call/text/talk/chill everyday to be close friends. I actually believe if that’s the case you’d annoy your friend to the point were they don’t want to associate themselves with you anymore. This is all because I believe EVERYONE NEEDS SPACE. Everyone is an independent person and everyone at some point needs alone time. Isn’t that a reasonable logic?

I mean you’re not my boyfriend, I don’t need to check in with you ALL the time. You have your other set of friends, your own family, your own life to live. You can’t always expect one person to be there every minute. That’s why it’s called YOUR LIFE.

So this friend told me I was a shitty friend. I wasn’t a good friend and I never was because I wasn’t there 24/7 to hold their hand every step of the way. There were certain circumstances that didn’t allow us to even talk everyday. They told me to get over myself, that I wasn’t the center of everyone’s attention. That a true friend would be there ALL THE TIME.

Now what started this whole thing? I said I missed them. I missed hanging out with them and being able to talk to them in person. (It was physically impossible because they are half way around the world)

It’s okay to give me negative feedback, I welcome TRUTHFUL answers.
What’s your opinion?

Just because I don’t talk to you

rekaayuchii:

Doesn’t mean I don’t think about you. Doesn’t mean I don’t check up on you. Doesn’t mean I don’t worry and wonder about how you are doing. Doesn’t mean I don’t care about you anymore.

(Source: philjayr, via alexwangxp)